Saturday, September 29, 2012

10 tacit traffic rules!


We all love to call ourselves perfect citizens of this nation. Think about it! Are we really perfect? Do we really put in any efforts to be perfect citizens? Are we all mature enough to take this responsibility of calling ourselves perfect citizens??? Guess No!

Anyways, I believe the first step towards being the perfect citizen is to be considerate towards other citizens! So, today I really want to write about something where we tend to lose our tolenrence for each other completely! And that thing is Driving! Why is it so that while driving, alomost all of us become aggressive, we all just refuse to treat each other amicably? Why it so that while controlling a machine, we stop controlling our minds? Why do we allow our mind to reject every idea of driving peacefully and become considerate towards other drivers, vehicles people on roads!
Anyways, I just want put down 10 unsaid and tacit traffic rules which we all should follow. Not following them will definitely not cause you any chalaan but following them will definately make driving easy and pleasent for you and for others on road:

1. Think twice before chucking out something out of the window of your car!!! Your car will definitely have a small space to put a small packet of garbage that can be thrown to a place where it belongs to! Plz understand roads are not the place for garbage!

2. Plz follow traffic signals! And then you earn the right to crib about others driving rough and harsh…

3. Stop honking on roads just for the heck of it! I hate those who just love to honk without even knowing for what and to whom they are honking! These fools even honk on empty roads!!! They think its cool, but actually they look idiots

4. Stop racing on roads. This is one thing which is so common on roads these days! It is no less than road rage! God, I have seen people racing with each other, without bothering about anybody else on the road and you know what the strangest part is, they don’t even know each other!!! It just starts randomly, when one person unknowingly over takes the other one and this other person, whose ego gets hurt  starts the race!!! Plz grow up people!

5. Plz plz show little empathy towards old people driving on roads! Plz

6. Stop abusing while driving! I almost daily witness fools who just love to abuse anybody and everybody on road! And there are bigger fools who do that with closed windows!!! I mean, what’s the obsession with abusing people and that too without reason? If someone is ahead of you, is not his/her fault, you really don’t have to abuse them!!!

7. Plz show little compassion with people who have “L” sign on their vehicles! You really do not need to mock them, ridicule them or make fun of them just because they have “L” sign. I don’t understand what’s the big deal in having a “L” sign! They have put this label to notify you! And when they themselves are declaring that they are in learning phase then imagine, how big a fool is somebody who makes fun of it!

8. Stop honking in static traffic! What can be more annoying than when you are stuck in a steady traffic and on top of it somebody keeps on honking at the back of your vehicle! Don’t you feel like getting down and smashing that person’s vehicle’s horn???

9. Plz give way to ambulance! I don’t need to explain this. This should be a common sense in all of us to understand that nothing on this damn planet is important than a person’s life, nothing!!! So, plz plz give way to an ambulance even if you are in super rush of something! One single min can save a person’s life

10. Last but not the least, plz get rid of this stupid prejudice that all the women are bad drivers! I hate this one generalized notion of men! They all have this conception that all women on the face of this planet are bad drivers!!! Dude, it shows your jealousy! Acc to a study by NBC, Some 80 percent of all fatal and serious car crashes are caused by male drivers. It also says women are 27 percent less likely than men to cause auto accidents. Plz refer the link: http://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/Women-are-Better-Drivers-Than-Men-Study-137202638.html... Anyways its not about which sex drives better. It completely depends on individual to individual!

So what do you think about the above mentioned points? Are they reasonable or not? All of us would definately have one or two points from the above mentioned list to change! Honestly, even I do have! So, lets bring the change within ourseves and make driving a pleasurable experience for us as well as others!
Keep smiling and stay blessed always:)

Friday, September 28, 2012

Whats this obsession with looks?

At times I see people commenting or making fun of a person’s looks and outer appearance! I feel strange! I mean isn’t that so ridiculous? I just feel weird about it… and there is a reason to it…
I agree we (all the people) come from different backgrounds, our upbringings are different, our nature, our personalities are also different but then there is one thing that is so common in all of us, and it is beyond our social status, our outer looks etc… and thats the thing with which we all (without exception) are made of: the bones, the blood and the flesh! Even the color of these things within all of us is same! And they all work on the same modus operandi for all of us. So when our internal systems are same, why do we so much bother about the external ones?
When the color of our bones, blood and flesh is same then why are we so much obsessed about the change in the color of skin that covers them all??? Its all same inside, then why the outside things matter so much? Can’t this be labeled as hypocrisy! Well, I believe we all are hypocrites in one or the other way, at one or the other point of time. But this is one thing which I abhor the most. Judging a person on the basis of his/ her looks is actually not done!

I have even witnessed few cases where a person's complete personality has been judged solely on the basis of his/her outer appearence!! That’s so so annoying… Plz people, stop doing that!!! There are many other important things in a person than just the looks! If you really want to judge a person, then first go and dare to know the inner side of that person and then, judge him/her. BTW, even that is wrong as you have no right to judge somebody. But I gave an option for the sake of all the psychos out there, who just cannot survive without evaluating and criticizing others!
Grow up guys! Looks remain with a person for few years; it’s the inner personality that remains with you forever! So, stop being a phycho... Live and let live happily:))))
Keep smiling and stay blessed forever!

Rainbow!

Here is one of my fav quotes. Its simple, crisp and yet, so clear! Dolly Parton has given such a wonderful message in just few words! Hope you love it:


Thursday, September 27, 2012

Why to bother about society?


Sometimes, I wonder what is the definition of right and wrong in our society? Where does that thin line lies between appropriate and in appropriate acc to our society? I mean what so ever you do, this society which we live in will always judge you and criticize you! Even if they appreciate you on your face, they are definitely going to mock you at your back! This happens specially with women… Strange but that’s the reality of the society we breathe in! And we can't help it because we belong to a very closely knitted society!

I have faced this many times: at school, at work everywhere! People are ready to judge you, to condemn you. At times, you feel like they are just in gaze of attacking you with criticism like a vulture and even if you don’t give them reasons, they have amazing abilities to find them! They can judge you (without your permission, mind it!) on the basis of your looks, your dressing sense, your way of walking, your way of talking, the kind of friends you have etc etc!!!

Later on, I understood how to handle all this crap! Just ignore them! Believe me, just do not bother yourself by mulling over who said what about youJ We stay in a society which loves to gossip then why to bother about it when we can’t change itJ They can and have to criticize you on everything. Believe me, whatever you do, it will never be right according to our society norms.

If you’re fat, they will say you look awful; If you’re thin and lean, they will say you look as horrible as a stick… If you dare to speak your mind, you can be labeled as a bitch; if you don’t say anything, you are rude… If you talk sweetly to people, you are fake and double faced; if you talk unpleasantly, then you have attitude… If you cry, man you will be branded as a drama queen; if you don’t show your emotions, they will call you heartless… If you have male friends, they will set up a link with all of them and will declare you as a whore; if you have female friends, they will call you player… If you go out partying, you are a slut; if you don’t go out to parties and get together’s, you are an anti- social person… If you dress up nicely and smartly, they will never ever like it or approve it and will surely call you shameless and impertinent; If you’re not dressed up nicely, they will criticize you saying you don’t have the sense of dressing… If you talk to strangers, you are impudent; if you don’t talk to them, you are arrogant!!!

Isn’t all the above true??? When a society will never ever approve your ways, then why to bother about them? Just be yourself, do whatever you like, whatever you want! They are there to criticize, let them do their jobsJ They cannot survive, if they will not do this job of theirs!! So, plz let them live and be happyJ Let lose and don't care what this world thinks, they always have something to say!!!

And yes, be proud of yourself and that’s the most important thingJ

Keep Smiling and Stay blessed...

To ALLLL my stupid F.R.I.E.N.D.S!!!

If you have read my previous posts, you would surely know how passionate I feel about this one word called "Friendship"! I believe, it is one of the most beautiful relationship on earth and you are lucky and blessed if you get a chance to say that "I have many best friends!"... And I am amongst those lucky ones!!! Yayyyyyy… <drumroll plzzzzz....>

They say I am super emotional when it comes to my friends! Yes, I admit I am! I love all of them and I can do any damn thing to make them smile:)

Here goes a small note to my gang:

Cheers to:

All the crap that we together love to do,
The world would call us insane if they knew...
All the shit that we love to talk,
All the laughs that we can’t stop...
All the gossip that we share,
The fun we have together is so rare...
All our stupid inside jokes,
Feel bad for those about whom we mock...
All the tears that we shed together,
All the pain that we bear for each other...
Its hard to define the bond we share,
Standing together even in times of despair...
Cheers to all the fun, gossip, tears and beers,
Which keeps on multiplying with every year...

Love ya alllllll... Keep smiling and stay blessed...

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Life !!!

How true is the below quote!!! and how beautifully and effortlessly, John Lennon has put down the meaning and truth of life in one sentence! What do you think?

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

For the boy I love: on our anniversary:)

So there is this boy I love so much,
Who makes my heart go up and down with a touch...
It definitely was the love at first sight,
That first look gave my heart the flight of a kite...
I still remember his very first smile,
In my stomach, it gave me so many butterflies...
I still remember our very first meet,
Blazing our hearts with such a tremendous heat...
Even after six years of love and bliss together,
You make me fall in for you every day, every month and every year...
You have blessed my life with so much happiness and joy,
How can you always create this magic O boy!...
You have given a meaning to my life,
I am really blessed to be your wife...
I only and only have one single wish that we always remain together,
Even death wouldn’t have the power to part us from each other...
I want to live every single moment of my life with you,
I want to grow old with you, I want to live with you and want to die with you...


I love you!

Why do nights seem to be so desperate to get wet!

Why do nights seem to be so desperate to get wet these days,
The clouds come thundering playfully with a faze...
Copying the night, even days become frantic to get drenched,
Why is it so that their thirst never seems to be quenched...
Looks like the clouds love to pour water on the earth,
Does not want to leave even an inch of land in dearth...
Nights start dancing as it hears the rumbling of the clouds,
Days cannot stop tapping by seeing the hazy and murky crowd...
Mist and fog covers the sky completely,
Playing with the clouds and rain so discreetly...
How much I wish this pouring to stop,
The bright sun to appear and absorb all the water drops...
I feel like the clouds tease me by veiling the sun,
‘Coz They know I love its brightness and for me, that’s the fun...
Why do nights and days seem to be so desperate to get wet these days,
And the clouds naughtily covering the sky and blocking the rays...

Keep Smiling and stay blessed:)

Drag me into the sea of dreams!

I beg my soul to drag me into the ocean of dreams,
Where there are only love fountains and streams...
How strong and sturdy sometimes I get this feeling now,
I have no idea who is going to help me, when, where and how!
My heart asks someone to drag me into the sea of dreams,
I have no idea about the reason of these weird feelings...
Is it that I am fed up of the realty of this cruel and selfish world?,
Is it that I feel in dreams my tensions will get curled...
Is it my soul which doesn’t want to remain wake up now?,
Is it my heart that doesn’t like the world’s reality anymore?...
What is it that is pulling me far away into the sea of dreams?,
Is it that it is more beautiful than our real world’s gleams?...
What is it that is pulling me far away into the ocean of dreams?,
Is it the fact that I can live my life there on my own regimes?...
How strong and sturdy sometimes I get this feeling now,
I have no idea who is going to help me, when, where and how!...
But I beg my soul to drag me into the ocean of dreams,
I beg my heart to drag me into the sea of dreams...

Monday, September 24, 2012

My Beautiful Pink Bicycle!


Do you remember your first bicycle?,
Did it have a bell that used to jiggle?...
A pink beautiful bicycle, I used to own,
Decorated with flowers and ribbons with matching tone...
It meant to me more than anything,
For me it was the only source of escaping...
It bought me freedom and independence,
Without license, I used to escape to the silence...
Silence of woods, trees and gardens,
After school, they used to be my warden...
How much I used to adore my little bike,
It used to take me beyond my home’s dike...
I had the most beautiful cycle in the neighborhood,
With so much pride I used to ride it in my childhood...
It was almost like a best friend to me then,
I felt it had heart, soul, feelings and compassion...
I still miss that beautiful small pink bike of mine,
The symbol of independence, freedom, love and so divine...

A new day has to come!

Another day would pass in a wink,
In few hrs, in the night it would sink...
And then a new day will come,
With new hopes and optimism...
In between lies the beautiful night,
For few, it’s a reason of fright...
Same is with our troubles in life,
Which comes and goes like these nights...
But one hope can keep you going in this race,
However dark is a night, it has a new day to face...
A day clear, amazing, dazzling and bright,
The new hope fills it with all the colors of light...
So ever again when you feel surrounded with problem,
A phase where all you see is trouble, difficulty and loads of glum...
Stand, Smile and confidently tell yourself,
A new day will definitely be bought by an elf...
Because after every night, how so ever dark or light,
A new day has to come with full of colors so bright!

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

The Love Affair Of The Sky:)

I look up at the sky and think,
How old it would have been…
Smiling like a teenager up there,
At it’s girlfriend, being in affair…
The sky is flirting with his love,
Earth feeling shy seeing him above…
When sky feels romantic, everything turns bright,
With glowing sun in the day and sparkling moon in the night...
It starts raining when the sky is sad,
Rain being the tears of this lad…
Winters arrive when the sky is enraged,
In form of Snow, it shows its outrage…
Autumn comes when he miss her madly,
Trees shed their leaves when earth sings sadly…
What a divine love, they both share,
Being miles apart, still they care…
They know they can never meet,
Still devoted to each other in this discrete…
I feel they are absolutely in love,
They share a relationship that can never be shove…
Wish all the lovers learn from them,
To treat each other like a precious Gem…

Keep Smiling Alwazzzz:)

The truth behind these stars....

Have you ever stared at the stars,
Wish to fill all of them in some jars…
Looks like so many eyes blinking so high,
Of Gods observing the world from the sky…
Then swiftly I get another thought,
As if they are lamps lightened by lord…
Then I feel they are dots on a beautiful blanket,
That covers and keep safe everyone on our planet…
And again my notion suddenly gets changed,
From God to kids it gets exchanged…
Now I feel they are blocks of a kid,
Creating different shape is the looker’s bid…
At times I feel they are dancers performing gracefully,
On the stage of the sky they move and blink beautifully...
Don't they look like a painting at times,
Tinted by few artists in the pastimes…
Sometimes their blinking looks like talking,
With each other, about the world they are mocking…
Blinking being their language to express,
Even without words, so much they profess…
Whatever is the truth behind these stars,
I just feel like filling them in my jars…
So that I can look at them whenever I want,
Leave the horses of my imagination loose and let them haunt!

Keep Smiling Alwazzzzz:)