Friday, November 23, 2012

The beautiful thing called life...

How life changes rapidly...
From dawn to dusk,
From radiance to dark,
From land to horizon,
From smile to laugh,
From forests to sand,
From oceans to land,
From thoughts to terms,
From emotions to expressions,
From life to death,
From breath to breath,
Have you realized how rapidly life changes?...
From month to years,
From years to decades,
From adolescence to youth,
From teenage to adulthood,
From adulthood to old age,
And from there to grave,
We lose all the precious years...
In cribbing and crying,
In fulfilling and gratifying,
In worrying and weeping,
We forget to enjoy and cherish,
This beautiful thing called life,
Which is given to us only once,
Once in a life time…
Why to waste it over immaterial tensions?
Why to waste it over insignificant reasons?
Learn to cherish this beautiful reward,
Which has been granted to us by lord...

Me, my space and my weird thoughts!

Helllooo!!! And guess whos back?

I was definitely not busy this time... Naaaaa, I wasn't... Just that I thought to take a break deliberately! Break from everything on earth. Off course, this "everything" doesn't include office as that's something which is beyond "everything"...

Anyways, I was in a different phase: a phase when you wish to be alone, when you feel like taking a break from the whole wide world, when you feel like discovering your inner self all over again, you feel like exploring your soul and your mind to the extent that had never been done before, when you mentally get hibernated and you just get shifted to your own little secret place, a place where nobody else has a permission to enter!

But yes, there are few lucky ones with whom you still want to talk, you want to share your stuff and thoughts, even in this phase:)

Yes, so I was in that phase from last few days and so, I just did not feel like writing anything... Its not that I am back from that little secret place of mine to this real world completely... But yes, I am back partially:) I mean I had to! I had to! Compulsions of life you know... You can't remain hibernated forever, that's nature's rule... You can only avail that luxury in the winters and you have to come back to life once the winters are gone...

Wish it was in my hands and believe me I would have remained in my little world forever! You know, that place, that amazing world of your own is so so thrilling and enchanting that you just don't feel like being a part of this real world anymore!!

Anyways, lets me change the topic else I will be labeled as a crazy! BTW, just to add I am not AT ALL on the verge of becoming a saint:) No, I am not!

Anyways, have you ever met somebody with whom you just feel an instant connection happening in the first meeting, even if you don't share words, you feel as if something is common between you two, you know that you both will end up being best friends, you know that this person is going to take a special place in your life? Strange no... BTW, there is other side of the coin too... It also happens that you meet somebody and you just feel a kind of dislike for that person in just the first meet! What do you think why it happens? Specially the former one?

I donno! Somehow I feel that destiny is a very powerful thing. We meet those people with whom we are destined to meet... And then at times, you end up being super duper best friends forever!!! God, I sound so so confusing at times!!! Am I sounding so now? Never mind...

Ok... I am gonna take an off now... Else I will start filling up this space with allllllll my weird thoughts!!!

You keep smilingggg and stay blessed:)

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Sun's Monotony

I look at the sun, the poor sun sitting at one place,
And wonder how monotonous it would be for him...
To do the same job everyday,
And that too in exactly the same way...
He rises at the same time from east,
Travel from the same path towards west to set...
Poor guy can’t even change his directions,
Or at least the path for a change...
What does he do sitting there for the whole day?,
Smile, laugh, cry or yawn: nobody can say...
He is alone and has nobody to talk to,
At least moon has stars to share his thoughts...
He has beautiful cold nights to enjoy,
Clouds to drape and stars to share the joy...
Poor sun has nothing but to sit idle,
And stare at other planets...
Moon even have the option of taking leaves,
Poor sun has no such thing to retrieve...
I wish I could give company to him,
And get his monotony trimmed...
I wish I could make him smile,
Which could help him to travel miles...

Success: Whats your definition?

Today morning, I saw an ad of dulux where Farhan Akhtar is seen saying few very intense and enchanting dialogues about success, passion, imaginations etc... Anyways, immediately after seeing that ad, I asked my husband: What do you think success is? and he gave such an amazing answer. He said "Success is getting what you want." So true!

Then I looked for the dictionary meaning of success. There were 2: 1. The accomplishment of an aim or purpose and 2. gaining wealth and status. I was upset!!! Why do everyone always link the word success to words like "Aim", "purpose", "wealth" and "status". So, people who don't have anything from this list but are still happy cannot be considered as successful??? I asked the same question about "What success is" to myself. And my mind immediately responded "when one feels happy and contented is when one is successful" and I was happy from my definition! and BTW, I truly believe in it.

How can you label yourself with the successful tag if you have loads and loads of wealth but no satisfaction, no time to enjoy that wealth and all you aim for 24X7 is about its safety, about how to increase it!

BTW, No offence to anybody. The meaning of success is different for different individuals. In this post, its all about my definition about it.

I always wonder how can one really declare of having achieved success merely by achieving materialistic goals, aims, wealth? That's it??? Don't you think its like depreciating the value of this amazing word called success? I think so! Success is something which is much much beyond these mere materialistic words. For me, words like happiness, peace, satisfaction, enjoying life defines success. I might be sounding like a crazy saint. But its ok, I say what I believe in from inside.

Guys, piling up wealth, achieving a status, accumulating tons of money can never ever give you peace, happiness and satisfaction beyond a certain point! All they give is more hunger for more money, gives you much higher aims to achieve and all you keep doing for the whole life is fulfilling that hunger.

Nobody in this rat race ever thinks about the end. Are we not mortals? Are we going to live forever? Does anybody know what will happen after one's demise? I mean will one get another chance to live and breathe on this beautiful planet and that too as a human being! Now think, does it really matter how much wealth one has accumulated? At the end, everybody is going to meet at the same point:) I am sure God is not going to have different chambers for "successful" and "unsuccessful" beings...

I am not saying stop working and just enjoy! No, that's like demeaning life. All I want to say is try to give a small share of this word "Success" to words like happiness, peace, enjoyment! Give them some space in your busy lives. If you can't create a 50-50 balance between ambitions and happiness then at least give a share of 20% to the later in your life. That will be more than enough to change the meaning of success for you. Believe me...

You remember as kids, small things used to make us smile, make us happy? I think back then we were more successful as compared to today. Wish we had a barometer to measure success and I am sure, it would have proved my point:D

Have you recently laid on your terrace and stared at those stars, the beautiful stars, the heart throbbing moon and felt them penetrating and sinking deep in your thoughts? Have you seen the beautiful sky and tried to create different shapes out of all those white dreamy clouds and felt them capturing your mind? Have you recently seen a flock of birds flying high and wished you were one of them? Have you recently bid a goodbye to a flying plane or a helicopter? This all sounds so crazy now? Isn't it? After all, we are not kids anymore, we are matured grown ups. It will be so embarrassing for us to do all this now. Right? hahhhh... We humans tend to live with so many illusions! Because we don't have time for all this, we ignore them saying that we would look like a fool doing these. You must have surely read the story of a fox who on being unable to get a few grapes, leaves them thinking "Those grapes are sour"! We all behave in the same manner...

Anyways, I believe in the opposite. All the above give me immense pleasure even today. You also try doing them and believe me, the happiness you will get is commendable, its beyond words...

Getting materialistic success had no meaning if you deprive yourself from small enjoyments and happiness guys:)

So, try to dedicate a small share from your busy lives to achieve the other (and real, for me!) part of success :)

Keep smiling alwaaaazzzzzzzzzzzzzz and stay blessed:)))

Thursday, November 15, 2012

18 till I die

This is based on a totally crazy thought of mine! Sharing with you guys:

I think of the day, the day, the day,
When I will have wrinkles all over my face…
When my hair will grow completely white,
When my thoughts will be free to fly like a kite…
When I will become a little whimsical,
When I will be free from the prison of ambitions…
When I will just have nothing to take care of and no worries,
When I will have time to cherish all my childhood memories…
When I will probably wear a spec with thick lenses,
When I will become friends with pain in back and knees…
When I will have ample time to fulfill all my hobbies,
When I will love to hear the word called Granny…
When I will go to the Garden with my old fellow friends,
When I will love to sit under the tree and gossip with them…
When my children will start guiding me for everything under the sun,
When I will boast about my experiences to my grandchildren…
When I will start calling my husband whimsical,
When I will start getting irritated with his anger…
When I will have the power to ask him to keep quiet,
When my world will shrink to him and his lovely smile…
When my wrinkles will show my years of existence,
When my white hair will narrate the tale of my experiences…
How will I feel when all this will occur?
Weird, odd, happy, bizarre, contented or peculiar…
I am sure I will still sing my fav song,
18 till I die: the theme of my life:)

Keep Smiling:)

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Rain: Please go away...


They say they love the rain,
For me, it’s just a pain…
That too the pouring without season,
To abhor rain, it gives me a bigger reason…
But there were days when I used to badly wait for monsoons,
My small fingers in wait to touch the droplets and globules…
Days when I had time to sit and enjoy its beauty,
When I used to wait to get drenched in its purity…
Where had those beautiful days gone?
Why don’t I wait to get drenched anymore?
I want to know about my sudden hatred towards rain,
Is it because it forces me to be confined in my home?
Or because of the darkness of these clouds,
Pouring like crazy and thundering so loud…
I feel they are here to take some revenge,
But what is it that they are so desperate to avenge…
Or is it the sky crying so hard,
Shedding its tears and roaring so hard…
I just want my beautiful sun back,
That brings a smile in my day’s rack…
Am I thinking too pessimistic about the rain?
Why am I only imagining tears, revenge and pain?
May be the sky sent these clouds as a messenger,
To bless our earth and take away all the pain and tensions…
I don’t know what the pouring is all about,
I just want my sun back which is hidden behind these clouds…
I feel like tearing this blanket of vapors, smoke and haze,
I just want the brightness and sunshine to clear this maze…
And then will come the beautiful rainbow,
Spreading the seeds of happiness to be sowed…
How much I love to see this amazing combination,
Of brightness, vividness, radiance and brilliance…
But I still hate the drizzling and rain,
For me its still the pain!

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Waiting for someone:)

Like the lips dying to smile,
Like the dreams ready to go miles...
Like a kid in a hurry to grow tall,
Like the dried leaves ready to fall...
Like the clouds ready to pour the rain,
Like a heart ready to get relieved from the pain...
Like a bulb ready to brighten a room,
Like a flower ready to bloom...
I am waiting for someone,
Someone to break me free...
Like a river dying to collapse into the endless ocean,
Like the sun waiting to sleep by the arrival of moon...
Like a bug waiting for a bud to blossom,
Like a moth attracted to the burning flame...
Like the exquisite beauty of the sky at the sunset,
Like the dawn ready to overtake the dying night...
Like the tears ready to escape from the eyes,
Like the emotions ready to break all the ties...
I am waiting for someone,
Someone to break me free...
Free from this earthly affair,
Free from this world’s fair...

Saturday, October 27, 2012

This one is for you Dad!

This is for that one man whom I love the most in this world! That one man who had been my first inspiration, my first hero, my first idol, the first super human being I had known and my first love!

Yesterday was his b’day and as usual, I couldn’t post this write up yesterday as I wanted to write something very very special for him! I wanted to take my own time in doing thatJ He completely deserves it! This special man in my life is my dad, my dad who had always been with me in whatever I did! True he did that in his own ways but I love you dad! Whatever I am today is just and just because of you and nobody on this whole planet can ever take your place!

You gave me life,
You gave me existence...
You gave me my individuality,
You gave me my originality...
You gave me much more than what you could afford,
You gave me your selfless love, warmth and so much more...
You gave me your peace of mind,
You gave me your sleeps of night...
You gave up your dreams to fulfill mine,
You gave up your luxuries to make them mine...
You are the bestest dad I could have ever asked for,
You are the epitome of God, how could I ask more...
I wish you become my dad, every time I take birth,
I don’t care in what form I come on this earth...
I love you more than anything in this universe,
My feelings for you are beyond these mere words!

Happy Birthday dad! Love you and wish you many many many many happy years to comeJ

Keep Smiling:)

Friday, October 26, 2012

Standing on a rotten iron bridge...


Standing on a rotten iron bridge,
Watching the rushing and hastening traffic…
Lost in my own petite world,
Lost in my own stupid dreams…
I felt I am somewhere on top of this earth,
Watching it in full motion underneath…
Everybody is in a rush to reach somewhere,
Am I the only one who’s still and static here?
I felt our planet is revolving around something,
In the same way we were taught while schooling…
I felt as if earth has a mission to achieve,
And that’s why she is in such a hurry….
To finish a round around sun in a year,
To spin around 360 degrees in 24 hrs!
Yes, she definitely has a mission to accomplish,
And that is why she is in such a swift rush…
But where is all this traffic rushing to,
Chasing and leaving each other behind…
I wanted to know why is everyone in such a scurry,
That nobody has a moment to wait and look around…
Look around this life we had been given,
Enjoy the silence and beauty of our existence!
Why is everybody always in such a hurry?
Am I the only one who has no worries...?
Standing on a rotten iron bridge,
Watching the rushing and hastening traffic…
Lost in my own petite world,
Searching the bunch of my worries….
Which could give me a reason to rush,
But I couldn’t find even a single one…
May be I dint intend to find and face them now,
Because I am in a rush to enjoy my silence now…

Thursday, October 25, 2012

When sobs convert into shrieks...

When sobs convert into shrieks,
That’s the time when you are free…
Free from the pain that ached in the heart,
Free from the pain that gave birth to the sobs…
When tears convert into groan,
That’s the time when you are librated…
Librated from the sting of pain,
Librated from the tears that rained…
Sobbing is not an option to find peace,
Shedding tears is not going to get you relieved…
Relieved of the pain that made your heart upset,
That caused the twinge and made your soul ache…
Let your sobs convert into shriek,
Let them flow outside your body…
Let your tears convert into groan,
That’s the way they are going to leave your soul…

Flying in the sky of hopes

Finally I am flying in the sky of hopes,
I was confined and stuck in pessimism’s bog...
That tried to confine me in the swamp of obscurity,
Making me believe that there is no hope and no clarity...
But before I could sink in that dark sludge,
My soul gave me hope to get out of that mud...
I thought why not to endeavor once more,
Stitching back my wings of confidence that were once tore...
And then I decided to fly very high,
I was not succeeded in just one try...
I had to attempt several times,
I had challenged my heart, soul and mind...
And then one day I was up in the sky,
Leaving behind the swamp in which I was confined...
The dark swamp that’s filled with mud of negativity,
It pulls you in and traps you in the web of obscurity...
So never let your wings of confidence be tore,
They can help you fly high in the sky of hope...

Friday, October 19, 2012

Begging my mind not to ditch my meager heart!

Another thought of mine:

I feel at times, I have a war going on within me somewhere,
My mind and heart are always in a sort of conflict…
My mind ignores everything my heart believes in,
And my heart never agrees to the things that mind deems…
Though my inner soul is always on my heart’s side,
Because it knows it is pure, unselfish and kind…
Mind play games and give suggestions by being egocentric,
So, my soul trust my heart as it knows it’s not egoistic…
But I guess my decision making glands lay within my brain,
That’s why my mind has the power to influence them without any pain…
My poor heart has limited power to approach my soul,
Request it to be selfless and keeps on reminding it about its role…
My mind has a tendency to disregard these feelings,
I feel the only thing my mind loves in the world is me…
I wish my brain become amicable with my heart someday,
then for taking wrong decisions, I will not have to pay…
But if it happens, then how will I remain a human,
I may rise to being a saint in that situation…
I don’t care what the repercussions would be,
I just want my heart to hold the supremacy…
I beg my mind not to ditch my meager heart,
That loves and cares about everyone in this planet’s cart...

Hope you liked it:) Keep smiling and stay blessed:)

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

The velvety icing on the top of cupcakes

One more weird thought originated from my weird brain! Below it is:)

The velvety icing on the top of cupcakes,
Looks like thrill on the top of happiness
The cream froth floating in a cup of coffee,
Looks like our hopes floating in the ocean of obscurity
The brownie dipped in the melting chocolate sauce,
Looks like a person getting tough in the searing difficulties
The small chips on the top of an enormous muffin,
Looks like small moments of happiness in one’s life span
Let us make our happiness more exciting with the icing of thrill,
Make sure your hopes keep floating in the ocean of uncertainties,
Leave yourself to get strong in the boiling sea of pain and troubles,
Do not forget to add the small chips of happiness on your life’s muffin…

Keep smiling alwaz and stay blessedJ

Monday, October 15, 2012

Walking through the forbidden aisle

Walking through the forbidden aisle,
No idea, I covered how many miles...
They warned me not to go that side,
Still my mind wanted me to take that ride...
Its not that I am extra brave,
For doing forbidden things, my soul always craves...
Its not that I was just not scared,
But that's something, beyond fear I had to dare...
To wander in the forbidden land,
Wanted to feel and touch its soul and sand...
I am happy I went on that road,
Discovered the meaning of satisfaction in that mode
Walking through the forbidden aisle,
No idea, I covered how many miles...

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Just a Hello:)

So, I am back after a hibernation phase of around a week:) No, I was definitely not resting! That is one luxury which is not made for me (or rather for which I am not made for!) or it will be more apt to say that it is a luxury which I just can't afford due to my super hyperactive brain!!!

Anyways, I was unable to pen down anything from last few days as I was busy with the maddening thing of job change! Oh I tell you its super tiring... I mean the paper work, finishing the documents, dealing with tension, stress, getting acquainted with the new people, new job, new place! But finally I am over it so I am happy:D (n here comes my 1000 watt smile!)

But I know coming weeks (probably it can stretch to months as well!) are going to be super hectic for me as I have a lot to learn and I am going to give myself to it completely! So, lets hope I am able to write regularly because when I don't do that, I start feeling guilty:( And I hate to deal with that! I have to give so many excuses to myself just to convince myself (sounds weird? but that's true!) My inner soul is very particular about few things and make sure I pursue them regularly and writing is one of them!

Anyways, keep smiling and stay blessed:) C ya soon:)))

Friday, October 5, 2012

Where is the promised treasure?


Sharing another weird thought originated from my weird mind!

Sitting on the stack of worries,
Sneaking behind at the pile of memories…
Facing the mountain of challenges,
Wondering if life is all about these things…

To dig the heap of tensions,
To want the old days back…
To plan to achieve the ambitions,
That’s it we have to place on our life’s rack?

Where are the things we dreamt about,
The clouds of happiness and pleasure…
The fog of peace and a life without doubts,
Then, where is the promised treasure?

Keep smiling and stay blessed:)

Thursday, October 4, 2012

Dreams of a little girl

I got this weird thought today morning that how the fairies and angels of our dreams in youth gets subtlety converted into ghosts of ambitions in this journey of life!

Dreams of a little girl,
To shine in this world...
The fairies of her expectation,
Took her for a ride to the world’s ocean...
The angels of her hope,
Too joined her in this elope...
Where there was only joy, pleasure and fun,
They forgot to introduce her to the ghost of ambitions...
Which was to chase her for the rest of her life,
She’ll have to deal with her expectations & ambitions in strife...
Only if she’d been taught to create a balance,
It would have so easy for her to handle...
Dreams of a little girl,
Now replaced with the ambitions!

Keep smiling and stay blessed:)

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Monsters within us!

Our Society, our movies and the rotten hypocrisy!


Yesterday finally I got to watch Cocktail (I know I am late... I am very late, ok...ok... super late!!!)... But this post is not about the movie review so I am safe:D

Its about the connotation that this movie has drawn with our society's hypocrisy! When I saw the trailers of this movie back in July, I really thought this one to be different, to be youth centric! I thought finally we got a movie which could portray a strong character like that of Veronica in a positive sense! But alas, I was completely disappointed by the way the whole Veronica character was portrayed in the movie!!!

This movie has once again established the decades old rotten subtext, the prejudice which prevails in our society that girls who wear salwar suit, pray in front of a Deity's statue, make biryani are the only ones eligible to get married to! This movie has also been made on the same decayed notion that girls like Veronica are only to screw and not to get married to! Phew... I cant explain how much I abhorred this movie!!! And yes, even the stupid thing how Veronica was ready to change herself completely just for the heck of getting married to a desi boy!!!

What a stupid notion this movie has established "Good girls always remains covered!" and yes, do not forget their middle name is "Sacrifice"...!!!

I really wish our society get rid of this hypocrisy soon and yes, our movies too!

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Rainbow: My Colorful Swing!

I have always been in love with Rainbows probably 'coz of all the colors it imbibe in such a beautiful and patterned manner! Just a glance of a Rainbow is enough to bring a smile on my face, it just gets me conveyed to my world of dreams! I wrote few lines on it, hope you like them:

Have you ever dreamt of sliding on a rainbow’s slope?,
Have you ever dreamt of dangling there with a rope?...
How amazing it would have been,
If Rainbow would have been a swing...
How amazing the fun it would be to slide on a rainbow’s slope,
Even after falling in the bucket of clouds, the fun won’t stop...
Such a colorful swing it would have been,
It looks like the outer shell of a pumpkin...
If only I could fix this rainbow swing in my garden,
To enter my dream world, it would have been my weapon...
I would glide and slide on this rainbow of mine,
I wouldn’t stop even for a small fraction of time...

Keep Smiling and Stay Blessed!

Monday, October 1, 2012

I don't want to climb the stairs!

I am feeling a bit grown up from last few daysL I feel mature and kind of an adult! Though I am trying hard to ignore and overlook these feelings by listening to Bryan Adam’s evergreen # 18 till I die! But even that is not helping me this timeL

I wrote few lines based on these emotions:

I feel like standing at the half way of life,
I feel like being in the middle of strife...
I wish I could go back in time,
But something keeps me pushing upstairs to climb...
How badly I wish to go downstairs far from worries,
But when I look back, there is only a fog of memories...
How badly I resist climbing upstairs,
Where I will have to witness life’s mature face...
I wish I could go down and live my childhood days,
Which were filled with all the colors apart from grey...
I just do not wish to reach the end of this passage,
‘coz I don’t know who all will remain with me in this voyage...
I wish these stairs to be endless,
I don’t wanna face what’s there at the end to witness...

Saturday, September 29, 2012

10 tacit traffic rules!


We all love to call ourselves perfect citizens of this nation. Think about it! Are we really perfect? Do we really put in any efforts to be perfect citizens? Are we all mature enough to take this responsibility of calling ourselves perfect citizens??? Guess No!

Anyways, I believe the first step towards being the perfect citizen is to be considerate towards other citizens! So, today I really want to write about something where we tend to lose our tolenrence for each other completely! And that thing is Driving! Why is it so that while driving, alomost all of us become aggressive, we all just refuse to treat each other amicably? Why it so that while controlling a machine, we stop controlling our minds? Why do we allow our mind to reject every idea of driving peacefully and become considerate towards other drivers, vehicles people on roads!
Anyways, I just want put down 10 unsaid and tacit traffic rules which we all should follow. Not following them will definitely not cause you any chalaan but following them will definately make driving easy and pleasent for you and for others on road:

1. Think twice before chucking out something out of the window of your car!!! Your car will definitely have a small space to put a small packet of garbage that can be thrown to a place where it belongs to! Plz understand roads are not the place for garbage!

2. Plz follow traffic signals! And then you earn the right to crib about others driving rough and harsh…

3. Stop honking on roads just for the heck of it! I hate those who just love to honk without even knowing for what and to whom they are honking! These fools even honk on empty roads!!! They think its cool, but actually they look idiots

4. Stop racing on roads. This is one thing which is so common on roads these days! It is no less than road rage! God, I have seen people racing with each other, without bothering about anybody else on the road and you know what the strangest part is, they don’t even know each other!!! It just starts randomly, when one person unknowingly over takes the other one and this other person, whose ego gets hurt  starts the race!!! Plz grow up people!

5. Plz plz show little empathy towards old people driving on roads! Plz

6. Stop abusing while driving! I almost daily witness fools who just love to abuse anybody and everybody on road! And there are bigger fools who do that with closed windows!!! I mean, what’s the obsession with abusing people and that too without reason? If someone is ahead of you, is not his/her fault, you really don’t have to abuse them!!!

7. Plz show little compassion with people who have “L” sign on their vehicles! You really do not need to mock them, ridicule them or make fun of them just because they have “L” sign. I don’t understand what’s the big deal in having a “L” sign! They have put this label to notify you! And when they themselves are declaring that they are in learning phase then imagine, how big a fool is somebody who makes fun of it!

8. Stop honking in static traffic! What can be more annoying than when you are stuck in a steady traffic and on top of it somebody keeps on honking at the back of your vehicle! Don’t you feel like getting down and smashing that person’s vehicle’s horn???

9. Plz give way to ambulance! I don’t need to explain this. This should be a common sense in all of us to understand that nothing on this damn planet is important than a person’s life, nothing!!! So, plz plz give way to an ambulance even if you are in super rush of something! One single min can save a person’s life

10. Last but not the least, plz get rid of this stupid prejudice that all the women are bad drivers! I hate this one generalized notion of men! They all have this conception that all women on the face of this planet are bad drivers!!! Dude, it shows your jealousy! Acc to a study by NBC, Some 80 percent of all fatal and serious car crashes are caused by male drivers. It also says women are 27 percent less likely than men to cause auto accidents. Plz refer the link: http://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/Women-are-Better-Drivers-Than-Men-Study-137202638.html... Anyways its not about which sex drives better. It completely depends on individual to individual!

So what do you think about the above mentioned points? Are they reasonable or not? All of us would definately have one or two points from the above mentioned list to change! Honestly, even I do have! So, lets bring the change within ourseves and make driving a pleasurable experience for us as well as others!
Keep smiling and stay blessed always:)

Friday, September 28, 2012

Whats this obsession with looks?

At times I see people commenting or making fun of a person’s looks and outer appearance! I feel strange! I mean isn’t that so ridiculous? I just feel weird about it… and there is a reason to it…
I agree we (all the people) come from different backgrounds, our upbringings are different, our nature, our personalities are also different but then there is one thing that is so common in all of us, and it is beyond our social status, our outer looks etc… and thats the thing with which we all (without exception) are made of: the bones, the blood and the flesh! Even the color of these things within all of us is same! And they all work on the same modus operandi for all of us. So when our internal systems are same, why do we so much bother about the external ones?
When the color of our bones, blood and flesh is same then why are we so much obsessed about the change in the color of skin that covers them all??? Its all same inside, then why the outside things matter so much? Can’t this be labeled as hypocrisy! Well, I believe we all are hypocrites in one or the other way, at one or the other point of time. But this is one thing which I abhor the most. Judging a person on the basis of his/ her looks is actually not done!

I have even witnessed few cases where a person's complete personality has been judged solely on the basis of his/her outer appearence!! That’s so so annoying… Plz people, stop doing that!!! There are many other important things in a person than just the looks! If you really want to judge a person, then first go and dare to know the inner side of that person and then, judge him/her. BTW, even that is wrong as you have no right to judge somebody. But I gave an option for the sake of all the psychos out there, who just cannot survive without evaluating and criticizing others!
Grow up guys! Looks remain with a person for few years; it’s the inner personality that remains with you forever! So, stop being a phycho... Live and let live happily:))))
Keep smiling and stay blessed forever!

Rainbow!

Here is one of my fav quotes. Its simple, crisp and yet, so clear! Dolly Parton has given such a wonderful message in just few words! Hope you love it:


Thursday, September 27, 2012

Why to bother about society?


Sometimes, I wonder what is the definition of right and wrong in our society? Where does that thin line lies between appropriate and in appropriate acc to our society? I mean what so ever you do, this society which we live in will always judge you and criticize you! Even if they appreciate you on your face, they are definitely going to mock you at your back! This happens specially with women… Strange but that’s the reality of the society we breathe in! And we can't help it because we belong to a very closely knitted society!

I have faced this many times: at school, at work everywhere! People are ready to judge you, to condemn you. At times, you feel like they are just in gaze of attacking you with criticism like a vulture and even if you don’t give them reasons, they have amazing abilities to find them! They can judge you (without your permission, mind it!) on the basis of your looks, your dressing sense, your way of walking, your way of talking, the kind of friends you have etc etc!!!

Later on, I understood how to handle all this crap! Just ignore them! Believe me, just do not bother yourself by mulling over who said what about youJ We stay in a society which loves to gossip then why to bother about it when we can’t change itJ They can and have to criticize you on everything. Believe me, whatever you do, it will never be right according to our society norms.

If you’re fat, they will say you look awful; If you’re thin and lean, they will say you look as horrible as a stick… If you dare to speak your mind, you can be labeled as a bitch; if you don’t say anything, you are rude… If you talk sweetly to people, you are fake and double faced; if you talk unpleasantly, then you have attitude… If you cry, man you will be branded as a drama queen; if you don’t show your emotions, they will call you heartless… If you have male friends, they will set up a link with all of them and will declare you as a whore; if you have female friends, they will call you player… If you go out partying, you are a slut; if you don’t go out to parties and get together’s, you are an anti- social person… If you dress up nicely and smartly, they will never ever like it or approve it and will surely call you shameless and impertinent; If you’re not dressed up nicely, they will criticize you saying you don’t have the sense of dressing… If you talk to strangers, you are impudent; if you don’t talk to them, you are arrogant!!!

Isn’t all the above true??? When a society will never ever approve your ways, then why to bother about them? Just be yourself, do whatever you like, whatever you want! They are there to criticize, let them do their jobsJ They cannot survive, if they will not do this job of theirs!! So, plz let them live and be happyJ Let lose and don't care what this world thinks, they always have something to say!!!

And yes, be proud of yourself and that’s the most important thingJ

Keep Smiling and Stay blessed...

To ALLLL my stupid F.R.I.E.N.D.S!!!

If you have read my previous posts, you would surely know how passionate I feel about this one word called "Friendship"! I believe, it is one of the most beautiful relationship on earth and you are lucky and blessed if you get a chance to say that "I have many best friends!"... And I am amongst those lucky ones!!! Yayyyyyy… <drumroll plzzzzz....>

They say I am super emotional when it comes to my friends! Yes, I admit I am! I love all of them and I can do any damn thing to make them smile:)

Here goes a small note to my gang:

Cheers to:

All the crap that we together love to do,
The world would call us insane if they knew...
All the shit that we love to talk,
All the laughs that we can’t stop...
All the gossip that we share,
The fun we have together is so rare...
All our stupid inside jokes,
Feel bad for those about whom we mock...
All the tears that we shed together,
All the pain that we bear for each other...
Its hard to define the bond we share,
Standing together even in times of despair...
Cheers to all the fun, gossip, tears and beers,
Which keeps on multiplying with every year...

Love ya alllllll... Keep smiling and stay blessed...