Tuesday, October 4, 2011

What is Perfect: Being Perfect or Imperfect!!!

One day I was just pondering my head in deciding whether I am a perfect person or an imperfect one! I don’t know why I was getting into it but yes, I really wanted to know. There were many parameters which could help me to reach the conclusion! I mean like the way I handle my house, the way I handle my office, the way I manage to create a balance between both! But before I start giving scores in different depts, shouldn’t I try to understand the meaning of being perfect.
Though there is no ‘perfect’ definition of being perfect but still thinking in a layman’s term, it can be depicted as “somebody who never did, never does and will never do anything wrong!” which means perfection should be there all through from past, to present and also, should be there in future.
Ok, so if I take in terms of ‘never did’, I am ruled out completely in first occurrence itself! I am not perfect! I mean everyone, I assume would have done mistakes at one or the other point of time. I have committed all sort of mistakes from small mistakes like spilling something which was meant to be for guests to big ones like hurting someone….So, that was about past… I am failedL

Now coming to present and future (want to finish them together), guess it’s the same story. Daily I commit one or the other mistake. It just happens. And for future, I just can’t promise not to do any mistake because they are something which happens unknowingly. You just do them and then later realize that what you did was wrong! So saying this, even the slightest chance of becoming perfect in future is buried!

But then when I think about giving myself scores in different walks of life, I think I get somewhere close to perfection. Because I know I try to do everything correct, be it for my family, my home, my work, my office and everything. I try my level best to do everything with perfection.
Also, just think if one becomes perfect, how boring the life will become. There will no fun, no learning at all… That’s what I believe. Because when you are perfect, it means you are at the acme of everything. There is no vacuum to be filled. You already know all that one got to know...

And I believe its mistakes and blunders from which a person learns the most. And if you stop learning, it means you are on the verge of becoming a corpse! This process of learning is very interesting and its fun… and I suppose it gradually makes a person mature. But if you are perfect, there will be no way to be covered, there will be no destination to be reached, there will be no mistakes to be corrected, there will be no learning to get!

So, be happy and be confident for what you are… Its completely perfect to be imperfect…
And at the end, keep smiling:O

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